As Goodwitch eloquently stated we should all take time to remember those who gave their lives during the course of a war or armed conflict. The last true war we fought (actually declared by Congress per the Constitution) was World War II. All other warlike activities are called "police actions" or have other fancy names attached to them.
But the truth is brave young men and women still get killed and maimed no matter what name we attach to the conflict. We should also remember the war or conflict in Afghanistan is still going on. We also should remember these are our sons, daughters, sisters, brothers, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers who have given their lives.
Set aside a minute to think of them before you go out on the trip or have that cookout. Also, make sure to display the US Flag properly and proudly.
Enough of my soap box and jingoism, time to have a good holiday!